Careful Words

friend (n.)

friend (v.)

Friend after friend departs;

Who hath not lost a friend?

There is no union here of hearts

That finds not here an end.

James Montgomery (1771-1854): Friends.

And choose an author as you choose a friend.

Earl Of Roscommon (1633-1684): Essay on Translated Verse. Line 96.

For when did friendship take

A breed for barren metal of his friend?

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): The Merchant of Venice. Act i. Sc. 3.

  He used to say that it was better to have one friend of great value than many friends who were good for nothing.

Diogenes Laertius (Circa 200 a d): Anarcharsis. v.

  Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.

Old Testament: Proverbs xxvii. 17.

  This passion, and the death of a dear friend, would go near to make a man look sad.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): A Midsummer Night's Dream, Act v. Sc. 1.

Be kind to my remains; and oh defend,

Against your judgment, your departed friend!

John Dryden (1631-1701): Epistle to Congreve. Line 72.

  Neither make thy friend equal to a brother; but if thou shalt have made him so, be not the first to do him wrong.

Hesiod (Circa 720 (?) b c): Works and Days. Line 707.

  Faithful are the wounds of a friend.

Old Testament: Proverbs xxvii. 6.

A fav'rite has no friend!

Thomas Gray (1716-1771): On the death of a Favourite Cat.

  Forsake not an old friend, for the new is not comparable unto him. A new friend is as new wine: when it is old thou shalt drink it with pleasure.

Old Testament: Ecclesiasticus ix. 10.

Large was his bounty, and his soul sincere,

Heaven did a recompense as largely send:

He gave to mis'ry (all he had) a tear,

He gained from Heav'n ('t was all he wish'd) a friend.

Thomas Gray (1716-1771): The Epitaph.

Thou wert my guide, philosopher, and friend.

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): Essay on Man. Epistle iv. Line 390.

I 've often wish'd that I had clear,

For life, six hundred pounds a year;

A handsome house to lodge a friend;

A river at my garden's end;

A terrace walk, and half a rood

Of land set out to plant a wood.

Jonathan Swift (1667-1745): Imitation of Horace, Book ii. Sat. 6.

But in deede,

A friend is never knowne till a man have neede.

John Heywood (Circa 1565): Proverbes. Part i. Chap. xi.

Not hate, but glory, made these chiefs contend;

And each brave foe was in his soul a friend.

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): The Iliad of Homer. Book vii. Line 364.

In death a hero, as in life a friend!

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): The Iliad of Homer. Book xvii. Line 758.

I praise the Frenchman, his remark was shrewd,—

How sweet, how passing sweet, is solitude!

But grant me still a friend in my retreat,

Whom I may whisper, Solitude is sweet.

William Cowper (1731-1800): Retirement. Line 739.

  Nothing is there more friendly to a man than a friend in need.

Plautus (254(?)-184 b c): Epidicus. Act iii. Sc. 3, 44. (425.)

The man that hails you Tom or Jack,

And proves, by thumping on your back,

His sense of your great merit,

Is such a friend that one had need

Be very much his friend indeed

To pardon or to bear it.

William Cowper (1731-1800): On Friendship.

  When Zeno was asked what a friend was, he replied, "Another I."

Diogenes Laertius (Circa 200 a d): Zeno. xix.

  Honest men esteem and value nothing so much in this world as a real friend. Such a one is as it were another self, to whom we impart our most secret thoughts, who partakes of our joy, and comforts us in our affliction; add to this, that his company is an everlasting pleasure to us.

Pilpay: Choice of Friends. Chap. iv.

  He was once asked what a friend is, and his answer was, "One soul abiding in two bodies."

Diogenes Laertius (Circa 200 a d): Aristotle. xi.

Neither a borrower nor a lender be;

For loan oft loses both itself and friend,

And borrowing dulls the edge of husbandry.

This above all: to thine own self be true,

And it must follow, as the night the day,

Thou canst not then be false to any man.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): Hamlet. Act i. Sc. 3.

  Honest men esteem and value nothing so much in this world as a real friend. Such a one is as it were another self, to whom we impart our most secret thoughts, who partakes of our joy, and comforts us in our affliction; add to this, that his company is an everlasting pleasure to us.

Pilpay: Choice of Friends. Chap. iv.

  But it was even thou, my companion, my guide, and mine own familiar friend.

Book Of Common Prayer: The Psalter. Psalm lv. 14.

My God, my Father, and my Friend,

Do not forsake me at my end.

Earl Of Roscommon (1633-1684): Translation of Dies Irae.

The man that hails you Tom or Jack,

And proves, by thumping on your back,

His sense of your great merit,

Is such a friend that one had need

Be very much his friend indeed

To pardon or to bear it.

William Cowper (1731-1800): On Friendship.

  Forsake not an old friend, for the new is not comparable unto him. A new friend is as new wine: when it is old thou shalt drink it with pleasure.

Old Testament: Ecclesiasticus ix. 10.

By Heaven! it is a splendid sight to see

For one who hath no friend, no brother there.

Lord Byron 1788-1824: Childe Harold's Pilgrimage. Canto i. Stanza 40.

Officious, innocent, sincere,

Of every friendless name the friend.

Samuel Johnson (1709-1784): Verses on the Death of Mr. Robert Levet. Stanza 2.

Green be the turf above thee,

Friend of my better days!

None knew thee but to love thee,

Nor named thee but to praise.

Alfred Bunn (1790-1860): On the Death of Joseph Rodman Drake.

O Music! sphere-descended maid,

Friend of Pleasure, Wisdom's aid!

William Collins (1720-1756): The Passions. Line 95.

Thou hast been called, O sleep! the friend of woe;

But 't is the happy that have called thee so.

Robert Southey (1774-1843): The Curse of Kehama. Canto xv. Stanza 11.

By Heaven! it is a splendid sight to see

For one who hath no friend, no brother there.

Lord Byron 1788-1824: Childe Harold's Pilgrimage. Canto i. Stanza 40.

Praise from a friend, or censure from a foe,

Are lost on hearers that our merits know.

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): The Iliad of Homer. Book x. Line 293.

And friend received with thumps upon the back.

Edward Young (1684-1765): Universal Passion.

Who God doth late and early pray

More of his grace than gifts to lend;

And entertains the harmless day

With a religious book or friend.

Sir Henry Wotton (1568-1639): The Character of a Happy Life.

Give me the avowed, the erect, the manly foe,

Bold I can meet,—perhaps may turn his blow!

But of all plagues, good Heaven, thy wrath can send,

Save, save, oh save me from the candid friend!

George Canning (1770-1827): New Morality.

A friend should bear his friend's infirmities,

But Brutus makes mine greater than they are.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): Julius Caesar. Act iv. Sc. 3.

  A man that hath friends must show himself friendly; and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.

Old Testament: Proverbs xviii. 24.

  A friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of Nature.

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882): Essays. First Series. Friendship.

Good bye, proud world! I'm going home;

Thou art not my friend, and I'm not thine.

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882): Good Bye.

Fallen, fallen, fallen, fallen,

Fallen from his high estate,

And welt'ring in his blood;

Deserted, at his utmost need,

By those his former bounty fed,

On the bare earth expos'd he lies,

With not a friend to close his eyes.

John Dryden (1631-1701): Alexander's Feast. Line 77.

Can't I another's face commend,

And to her virtues be a friend,

But instantly your forehead lowers,

As if her merit lessen'd yours?

Edward Moore (1712-1757): The Farmer, the Spaniel, and the Cat. Fable ix.

But he whose inborn worth his acts commend,

Of gentle soul, to human race a friend.

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): The Odyssey of Homer. Book xix. Line 383.

Friend to my life, which did not you prolong,

The world had wanted many an idle song.

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): Epistle to Dr. Arbuthnot. Prologue to the Satires. Line 27.

  I am a great friend to public amusements; for they keep people from vice.

Samuel Johnson (1709-1784): Life of Johnson (Boswell). Vol. iii. Chap. viii. 1772.

Art thou a friend to Roderick?

Sir Walter Scott (1771-1832): Lady of the Lake. Canto iv. Stanza 30.

Statesman, yet friend to truth! of soul sincere,

In action faithful, and in honour clear;

Who broke no promise, serv'd no private end,

Who gain'd no title, and who lost no friend.

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): Epistle to Mr. Addison. Line 67.

Yet the first bringer of unwelcome news

Hath but a losing office, and his tongue

Sounds ever after as a sullen bell,

Remember'd tolling a departing friend.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): King Henry IV. Part II. Act i. Sc. 1.

  Treat your friend as if he might become an enemy.

Publius Syrus (42 b c): Maxim 401.

Friend after friend departs;

Who hath not lost a friend?

There is no union here of hearts

That finds not here an end.

James Montgomery (1771-1854): Friends.

Statesman, yet friend to truth! of soul sincere,

In action faithful, and in honour clear;

Who broke no promise, serv'd no private end,

Who gain'd no title, and who lost no friend.

Alexander Pope (1688-1744): Epistle to Mr. Addison. Line 67.

The world is not thy friend nor the world's law.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): Romeo and Juliet. Act v. Sc. 1.