Careful Words

marriage (n.)

marriage (adv.)

  Is not marriage an open question, when it is alleged, from the beginning of the world, that such as are in the institution wish to get out, and such as are out wish to get in?

Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803-1882): Representative Men. Montaigne.

  Marriage and hanging go by destiny; matches are made in heaven.

Robert Burton (1576-1640): Anatomy of Melancholy. Part iii. Sect. 2, Memb. 2, Subsect. 5.

O curse of marriage,

That we can call these delicate creatures ours,

And not their appetites! I had rather be a toad,

And live upon the vapour of a dungeon,

Than keep a corner in the thing I love

For others' uses.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): Othello. Act iii. Sc. 3.

  Marriage is a desperate thing.

John Selden (1584-1654): Table Talk. Marriage.

With an auspicious and a dropping eye,

With mirth in funeral and with dirge in marriage,

In equal scale weighing delight and dole.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): Hamlet. Act i. Sc. 2.

Let me not to the marriage of true minds

Admit impediments: love is not love

Which alters when it alteration finds.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): Sonnet cxvi.

Thrift, thrift, Horatio! the funeral baked meats

Did coldly furnish forth the marriage tables.

Would I had met my dearest foe in heaven

Or ever I had seen that day.

William Shakespeare (1564-1616): Hamlet. Act i. Sc. 2.

There was a sound of revelry by night,

And Belgium's capital had gather'd then

Her beauty and her chivalry, and bright

The lamps shone o'er fair women and brave men.

A thousand hearts beat happily; and when

Music arose with its voluptuous swell,

Soft eyes look'd love to eyes which spake again,

And all went merry as a marriage bell.

Lord Byron 1788-1824: Childe Harold's Pilgrimage. Canto iii. Stanza 21.