extenuate (v.)
- abate
 - allay
 - alleviate
 - apologize
 - assuage
 - attemper
 - attenuate
 - bate
 - blunt
 - chasten
 - color
 - constrain
 - control
 - cramp
 - cripple
 - damp
 - dampen
 - de-emphasize
 - deaden
 - debilitate
 - devitalize
 - dilute
 - diminish
 - downplay
 - dull
 - ease
 - enervate
 - enfeeble
 - eviscerate
 - exhaust
 - explain
 - ignore
 - justify
 - lay
 - lenify
 - lessen
 - lighten
 - mince
 - mitigate
 - moderate
 - modulate
 - obtund
 - palliate
 - qualify
 - rationalize
 - rattle
 - reduce
 - remit
 - restrain
 - sap
 - shake
 - slacken
 - smother
 - sober
 - soft-pedal
 - soften
 - stifle
 - subdue
 - sugarcoat
 - suppress
 - tame
 - temper
 - unbrace
 - undermine
 - underplay
 - unman
 - unnerve
 - unstring
 - varnish
 - veneer
 - weaken
 - white
 - whiten
 - whitewash
 
As for the brandy, "nothing extenuate;" and the water, put nought in in malice.
I have done the state some service, and they know 't.
No more of that. I pray you, in your letters,
When you shall these unlucky deeds relate,
Speak of me as I am; nothing extenuate,
Nor set down aught in malice. Then, must you speak
Of one that loved not wisely but too well;
Of one not easily jealous, but being wrought
Perplex'd in the extreme; of one whose hand,
Like the base Indian, threw a pearl away
Richer than all his tribe; of one whose subdued eyes,
Albeit unused to the melting mood,
Drop tears as fast as the Arabian trees
Their medicinal gum.